5 Signs You Need a Marriage Counselor

Do you feel that something isn’t going right with you and your partner? Are the signs listed down, are making it worse? Then you really need help from a marriage counselor. So let’s get started with the 5 signs indicating that you need to see a marriage counselor. But before it, here are some general things you should know before hopping on to search for a marriage counselor.

Do you feel that something isn’t going right with you and your partner? Are the signs listed down, are making it worse? Then you really need help from a marriage counselor. So let’s get started with the 5 signs indicating that you need to see a marriage counselor. But before it, here are some general things you should know before hopping on to search for a marriage counselor.

Don’t you fight with your partner/spouse? of course, you do, everyone does, and there’s is nothing to feel embarrassed about it. No relationship can last without fights and arguments. Also, there isn’t anything like a “PERFECT COUPLE or PERFECT RELATIONSHIP”. Everyone fights for the thing that seems wrong to them or against them.

It doesn’t really matter how long two people have been before marriage. Though the two could be extremely in love with each other with zero fights. Yet after marriage, it all becomes like a dream that you were living in. With marriage comes responsibilities of making decisions by keeping your and your partners’ perceptions (especially) in mind before actually working on them.

1. Zero communication

Communication is an integral part of everyone’s life. If you don’t communicate with people, then how can you expect them to know you deeply. Sometimes your partner may overlook or ignore what you are trying to say to them, and that okay (SOMETIMES). But if he/she or even you are ignoring talking to each other, then you are actually in trouble. No conflicts can be resolved without communication. This is the most important out of all 5 signs that your marriage is in trouble and you really need a marriage counselor.

2. Unfair or no fights

A few fights and arguments are known to be the key to a good and healthy relationship. But if you two are fighting on regular bases and that too on the same petty things, you really need to think twice before carrying on with your relationship. Also, if your fights are getting way to personal and hurtful, they are not helping you to move forward or be productive. A relationship is all about facing the hardships and overcoming them together even after disagreeing and fighting with your partner in a safe and healthy way. Avoiding conflicts can really develop bitterness, resentment, and emotional disagreement.

3. No honesty and trust

You presume your accomplice is lying. So sometimes, with an end goal to stay away from a battle or upset your partner, you may retain information to attempt to ensure or protect them. And this leads to dishonesty with your partner. Trust can be broken through activities completed on the web or while utilizing social media. Dishonesty and trust both come in numerous structures. It doesn’t need to be physical, individual-to-individual betrayal. Retaining data is another type of lying and unkindness, so be cautious about what you decide to mind your own business.

4. Lack of intimacy

Intimacy both physical and emotional plays an important role in building a happy and stable relationship. Obviously, intimacy does refer to sex but it also refers to more actions like hugging, cuddling, holding hand, or simply touching each other while talking. Some people tend to sweep things under the rug and say “we are like roommates that are bound to cross each other while passing in hallways.” when asked by a friend about their sexual chemistry. So, if you feel that this is exactly what you and your partner are going through, then beware of the fact that the relationship is going to end up soon.

5. Addiction

Some people are addicted to alcohol OR drugs and take them on a daily basis. This addiction really can be a pain in a relationship. Moreover, husbands who come home at night after drinking, are the ones who take out all their anger and stress on their wives, or “maybe sometimes” (zero possibilities) vice versa. You really need to get off from this toxic marriage if you are being used as a stress buster or something like that.

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